Skip to main content

Posts

Showing posts with the label Relationship

Restrict it only to Sharing: Relationship Problems

“ Shared  joy is a double joy;  shared sorrow  is half a  sorrow ” I would like my friends to concentrate on the second part of this famous saying, Shared sorrow is half a sorrow . The line has a clear meaning. When we are sad, share it with a close friend or relative, or sometimes even with a stranger and you feel much relieved. And I suppose everyone does that. The exceptions are only those, who are fortunate enough to have a strong inner will power and the unfortunate ones who don't have anyone to share, and usually all of the people in the unfortunate category upgrades themselves to the fortunate category with due course of time. Share, you feel light hearted Nevertheless, coming back to the sorrow problem, as Teenagers or rather official adults, what are the major reasons of sorrow that we share, particularly with our friends. I suppose 30% would share their family problems, restrictions; 5% about our studies, and 65% definitely...

Taken for Granted: Fuck them out of Life

'Mokaterinian', this word was used in a Bollywood Movie called Sahib, Biwi Aur Gangstar; and believe me what a deep meaning the word conveys. People now a days are more of a Profit seeking animal rather than a social animal. They tend to stay with you, only if they feel they would actually be befitted by you.  The fact is 18 years of my life, I believed that being inferior to others simply helps you to get along well with them. People always enjoy being on top of others. And specially the Indians, we always like to dominate others, just because I suppose we were ruled upon by the British for about 200 years. But I have tried to be a neutral one. I wanted to maintain a rapport with almost everyone I knew, and as for that I have always initiated in maintaining a healthy relationship with them. But there is a threshold limit of everything. You can actually wait and tolerate their behavior for quite sometime, but if they fail to respond,...